Before I started studying early childhood education, I
thought it would be a great opportunity for me to see the world through the
innocent eyes of children. However, I now believe that I am far more innocent
than most children. They have successfully tricked me many times.
Once a little girl asked me to draw her another ice cream
because she had lost the first one I gave her. I said no because I had decided
to quit my ice cream business after drawing and cutting out more than a dozen
ice creams for the kids. It was interesting to see the kids choosing the flavors
and licking their paper ice cream. But enough was enough. So I refused to make
another one and the little girl begged and begged. Of course I finally relented
and made another one for her - a bigger one as well, just as she requested.
Later she asked me to put the new ice cream in her locker and guess what, I
found the other ice cream there! I took both and went to ask her and she
explained, 'The small one is for me and the bigger one is for my mummy.'
I had to smile at that. The next day her mum thanked me and said that she
really enjoyed the big ice cream.
Another time, a girl came and showed me her bleeding toe
and asked for a plaster. So I took her to the medical room and put a plaster on
her toe carefully while another girl watched us with a great interest and asked
me to put one on her knee as well but I refused. As I watched the injured girl
walking out gingerly, I was worried and told her to go slowly. But she then
told me that she had tricked me. She admitted that she just painted her toe red
so that it looked like it was bleeding! Plasters are considered a proper
fashion statement in the kindergarten these days in case you don’t know.
Kids' imagination always fascinates me and I find it very
easy to be part of their play. One morning I saw some kids playing birthday
party so I went to them and was about to sit down and join them when one boy
said, 'No no, you can’t come, only kids are allowed!' I answered, 'I am a kid
too, I am just bigger.' He looked at me bewilderedly and didn’t know what to
say. So I smiled at him and he smiled back, then I sat down for a piece of
imaginary birthday cake.
Once I saw a boy playing with water outside. He was
determined to fill up the big water tank on his own even though he didn't have
any buckets or containers. How is he going to solve the problem, I wondered.
You will never guess what he used in the end. I watched him tilting his head, opening up his mouth as wide as he could under the faucet, filled it up with water and
'carried' the water carefully to the water tank and repeated the process until
he got bored of his mission. My mouth was probably open too, full of surprise
and admiration.
Being with kids has already taught me many things although
I am afraid that I still have a lot more to learn. One day the whole school
took the bus to visit a girl at her new school who just turned five and left us
to start primary school. When we arrived, she was waiting for us outside. The
kids spotted her and shouted out her name and waved excitedly. She waved back
with a huge grin on her happy face and came and took us to her new classmates and teachers. We
all sat down and introduced ourselves one by one. One of our teachers was
crying when she described how she watched the girl growing up and how much she
would be missing her. I saw the girl’s mum and some of the teachers also had
tears in their eyes. Later we sang songs and had our morning tea together. One
of the songs is still stuck in my head now, 'Hallelujah' - a beautiful song.
One of the lessons I have learned is from a little boy. Early
one morning a boy asked me to make a paper airplane for him but I told him I
didn’t know how to because I had never made one before. He just stared straight
in my eyes and said, “So you just do your best!” I burst out laughing. But of
course I know he was right. I followed his advice and tried my best and finally
made my first ever paper airplane!
You just do your best indeed.
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